Body Age: 25 / scorpio
Collective Names: Ian (+SOL, Val, Ray, Cas)
Collective Pronouns: they/them, he/him, it/its, fae/faer, ze/zem (just don't refer to the body with she/her, individual alters are fine to use she/her for)
Making this mainly for myself/to share with my friends who are curious abt the system thus far, none of this will mean anything to anyone who doesn't interact with me and I'm fine w/ that.
We aren't bothered by specific gendered terms for the body aside from she/her pronouns, we don't mentally associate physical features = gender and are very nonbinary so honestly feel free to switch it up. There are very few things we still feel genuinely gender dysphoric about, and if you know us we've told you,
This is all info we're fine having "public" on our niche-ass neocities website, the private stuff is for our journals.
At any given time multiple of us are cofronting/blending, "hosts" are those that are pretty much always/most often fronting and are usually the main connecting threads of our memories. Don't worry about differentiating them from the outside, we're still working on recognizing whose active and when. We conceptualize it a lot like the emotions in Inside Out at the control table, but not everyone is always there "watching" whats going on or participating. Individual alters can experience amnesia when fronting for the first time in a while which will also throw off everyone else fronting, short term memory stuff gets easily jumbled with the individual switches that we can't always keep track of easily. The divisions are not super strict, which is where "blending" of those fronting comes in, they're all present and me.
If the icon artist link is empty, then its my own art I'm using for the icon or official art, otherwise I've directly linked the source.
For the sake of this page I'll clarify my specific use of terminology